Relationships are hard work, especially when you have been together for a long time.
No one prepares you for that.
You go into the relationship bright eyed and bushy-tailed thinking âI finally have someone in my life who loves and respects me, who supports meâ. Itâs heartbreaking when things start breaking down.
You start replaying your life together in your head, where did it all go wrong? Was it me, was it him or was it never right to begin with.
You donât communicate well, your arguments are escalating. Theyâre more frequent and intense.
The more you try to bring back connection and support, you drift further apart. You try and bring up the issues and talk through things but nothingâs improving.
When you throw kids into the mix, his family, your family, your upbringing it all feels too much.
You start wondering is it meant to be like this, do I fight for it or let go? Am I the only one trying, you both have so much to improve on but where do you start?
You need to figure this out NOW and you know there must be a better way.
The truth isâŚÂ you want to communicate, you want to feel that deep connection again but whatever you try it's just not happening.
The key to relationship is communication but how do we communicate with the other person when
...they get defensive
...they get critical
...they don't say much
...they deflect, blaming you
...they just don't understand you, you don't feel heard
...they don't get you, truly get you
...at times you may even do some of these because you're just at a loss on what to do.
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MY STORY
You see, Iâve been where you are and I have worked with 100s of clients whose relationship is on the brink of breakdown.
Iâve been with my husband for 12 years BUT it wasnât always smooth sailing.
We've had a lot of arguments about the same things. He felt like I didn't understand him and I felt the same. We were drifting apart, there was a lot of love there but we just didn't know how to get back to one another.
We both had to learn how to communicate, handle our emotions, how to explain our world to the other person in a way that the other person doesn't become defensive and attacks.
I was so passionate about this I made it my mission to learn everything about couple communication and share it with the world.
Maybe youâve tried reading relationship books or listening to podcasts about how to improve your relationships. Theyâre often filled with some great ideas but they quickly become ineffective or you donât know how to implement them for your particular situation. You know there are missing pieces to this puzzle and you need some real support. Introducing:
Reconnect through Communication for couples
Iâve created a comprehensive yet easy-to-understand 4 week course that focuses on COMMUNICATION in your relationship.
Iâll help you implement strategies on how to turn your conflict into conversation. How to connect through talking and truly feel heard and understood.Â
But donât just take my word for it, here is what my previous clients had to say:
"I found very difficult to put down in words what Vanja done for me and my family. She made me see the circle that I am stuck in since a little girl and why I felt the way I was feeling, my experience was magical."
"Vanja is amazing, she listened to my story from childhood with empathy, helped me see the link between my anxiety and something unresolved for many years."
"Vanja made me feel empowered to maintain healthy boundaries with my family - Build my capacity to face fears in a controlled manner in the same situations that triggered my anxiety."
"I wish I had found Vanja a few years back but at least I found her. Thank you, Vanja. I haven't healed fully but with you empowering me every session and building my capacity I am sure I can be free from my past issues and trauma."
Just picture yourself in a week. Having insight after insight. Finally understanding where youâve been going wrong along. Knowing how to effectively communicate and more connection in your relationship.
And imagine in a few weeks finally being able to express yourself clearly and effectively and being able to truly understand your husband. Deep conversations coming from a place of love and respect creating harmony in your relationship. Not fearing bringing up a topic because it will result in a fight but actually getting to the root of the issue.
A few months down the track the spark in your relationship is back. Youâre happier & feel more connected than ever. Youâre able to communicate with love and respect - even on topics you donât agree on. Taking responsibility for your actions and reactions and always coming from a place of love.
What youâll get?
Access to Reconnect through CommunicationÂ
Each week Iâll be doing a deep dive into communication, how to express yourself so you're heard and understood. How to handle conflict when it does arise and work through it.
Downloadable cheat sheets and tips
Yours to keep forever.
Practical take home exercises
Designed to help you apply new acquired skills and tools. Practice makes progress, and we are looking for progress not perfection.Â
BonusesÂ
Q&A to help you work through your specific situation
Do's and Don't of effective communication
30 date ideas to bring the spark back.Â
Get ready to move from disconnection and miscommunication to respect, understanding and connection.
Discover true happiness and freedom in your relationshipâŚ.
Learn how to create a respectful and connected relationship with your partner. Youâill learn how to better understand each other's desires and fears, resulting in a deeper level of intimacy and trust.
As a result of this newfound understanding, you'll experience feelings of joy, love, and support within your relationship. You'll be able to reignite the spark that brought you together in the first place and create a relationship that is fulfilling and meaningful. Learn how to communicate effectively with your partner, allowing you both to feel seen and heard.
Overall, the course offers a valuable opportunity to enhance your relationship and create a foundation of mutual respect and understanding. By investing in your relationship, you can experience the true happiness and freedom that comes with a strong and connected partnership.
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Hereâs the thing⌠you could spend years and years being frustrated & unhappy in your marriage hoping things will change.
You could even go through the pain and hurt of losing the one you love.
And go on to repeat the same patterns with new partner.
Or maybe spend thousands hiring a relationship coach and work with them 1:1.
Worse case - you could spend vast sums of money on a long drawn out painful divorce.
OR
Secure your spot today!Iâm giving you everything Iâve learned over the last 10+ years to help you create a loving, healthy relationship with more support, better communication, connection and respect.
All you have to do is say yes to your marriage.
But hurryâŚ. limited places available!
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And if you're reading this and wondering if it will work for you.
The answer is YES.
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Iâve done this myself and have helped my clients do it too. In fact, using the EXACT methods & tools I teach, Iâve helped my clients go from feeling lost and alone to happiness and love!
Which means it's 100% possible for you too.
SO...
If youâre ready to build a STRONG marriage with connection and support
Develop effective communication skills, express how you feel and what you need
Discover how to work through conflict & even when in disagreement you remember the love and respect you have for each other.
Set healthy boundaries in the relationship and discover a rich, life-giving relationship.
Learn how to ignite the spark in your relationship again
Iâd love to invite you to join us.
Keen to join but have a few questions?
Not a problem. Investing in a program is a big decision. Book a call using link below and letâs chat.
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